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butt toys not wide enough

Postby imtommy » Mon Mar 16, 2009 10:22 pm

Hi there,
I have been browsing your site looking for a new anal toy for myself (I'm a male). Well, I can't seem to find one wide enough!

I don't want a single width toy, I instead prefer a beaded type like the 'Space Invador' blue butt plug (here http://sexgear.co.nz/product.aspx?id=A0 ... gory_id=18) that gradually increases in width. However, I want something that is, at its widest point at least 5 cm wide (at the same time it should have a smaller entry end). At present I can easily take something 3 cm wide and I want to train my anus to stretch more. Also, I intend to "slam" my butt quite hard with the toy so I don't want a toy that is so long that slamming hard becomes a hazard. Finally, I prefer a toy that vibrates.

Do you have an item like the one I'm looking for? I sure couldn't find any :( Any other recommendations would be welcome.

Thanks.

Regards,
Tommy
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby imtommy » Wed Mar 18, 2009 6:18 pm

Ok I was hoping to get a reply from a staff but I just searched a bit more and found this one http://sexgear.co.nz/product.aspx?id=A3 ... gory_id=17 which I have ordered. Hope it will be good :)
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby AexCN625 » Thu Mar 19, 2009 7:14 am

this may sound weird coming from me (a heterasexual), but I'm interested in the feedback, if you can.

Cheers
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby Sarah » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:33 pm

Hi there! Apologies - I completely missed this question! The toy you have chosen is great - however it does not vibrate?

The other toy I would recommend is this one Back Me Up - which has quite a thick base AND vibrates.

Aex - thanks for giving feedback when I didn't! Butt toys are used by lots of people including heterosexual males and females. Did you know that the p-spot (male version of the g-spot) is located in the anal cavity?
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby imtommy » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:18 pm

Hi Sarah,

Thanks for the reply. The toy you suggested is nice but its just not big and scary enough for me. I've already played with several 'small' toys and so I needed a bit of a challenge - hence the Back in Black :) I'm training myself to take an entire fist in there hence the need for a wide toy.

And, by the way, I am heterosexual too! I found my p-spot a long time ago and know just why anal ..err..banging...feels so good (especially when done by a strapon-weilding woman hehe). :lol:

As for the bit about my new toy not vibrating...sitting on the washing machine will work just fine :P

Cheers,
Tommy
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby imtommy » Mon Mar 23, 2009 5:54 pm

Got the toy on Friday and it is AWESOME!!!! Definitely big enough to be just a challenge and not an impossibility. Although the package could have been more discreet by being in a box instead of a courier bag (through which you could feel what was inside) but apart from that very good service :)

Now where did I put that plug?...oh wait... :oops:
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby AexCN625 » Tue Mar 24, 2009 7:19 am

Tommy - Great to hear that you're enjoying the toy. If you don't mind me asking, what made you decide to pursue the adventure in that region?

Sarah - Yeah I had heard about the p-spot, but wasn't sure how true the story was. I had seen it mentioned in a few movies, but information from movies isn't always reliable. Funnily enough, after reading this post, a few days later I got an email from a homosexual friend of mine whom I hadn't had contact in a very long time and we had a great conversation and he was filling me in - with information that is :P
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby digital_sinnah » Sat May 23, 2009 12:14 pm

AexCN625 wrote:Sarah - Yeah I had heard about the p-spot, but wasn't sure how true the story was.


very true and very satisfying Aex! A g-spot vibe will hit the spot!
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby AexCN625 » Tue May 26, 2009 12:43 am

I'm going to assume you know from experience ;)

Can you describe how it all ends up? Like, is it really how it's portrayed in the movies? A few tingles and it just comes out hard? Pardon the words used, tis late at night and is the only way I can think of to word it :|
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Re: butt toys not wide enough

Postby digital_sinnah » Wed May 27, 2009 10:24 pm

LOL..your descriptions are honest and to the point - I like it Aex!
....but back to the question you asked... I have found with a P-spot orgasm it was a long slow journey there....but when it hit- yes, it hit hard. And (this is where it does get more colourful ;) )I certainly did 'squirt' a more-than-average amount.
Ok - let's be brutally honest - anal action requires some planning and execution, and I know that it is probably not everyone's cup of bran flakes, but rest assured....once you are able to attain this type of orgasm it's quite an eye-opener.... :D
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