orgasms

[little red]

Subject: Orgasms during sex. have been with my husband ten years and have achieved it maybe twice. Piece of cake on my own, just tricky when he's there! Have had some success with spa jets, hes present however hes not inside at the time due to difficult angles! We also do it all ways... Any suggestions of toys or tips please? Would love for him to share my moment with me intimately.

[Sarah]

Hi there, thanks for the honest question there. Wasn't quite sure whether it was clitoral or g-spot orgasms you had struggled to acheive with your husband? If it is clitoral orgasms you would like to achieve with the help of your husband, then it would be great if you guys worked on his oral stimualtion on you. Evidence suggests that oral sex is the most likely way that a woman can achieve clitoral orgasm from a partner. If it's g-spot satisfaction you are struggling with then rest assured - you're not the only one! Only about 30% of woman have ever experienced this during intercourse. Positions that help your antaomy to be best angled for g-spot orgasm are doggy style, and missionary, with him on top and a pillow underneath your lower back. If you would like some assistance, I would suggest you use a specifically designed toy. http://sexgear.co.nz/vibrators/g-spot-stimulator/1/ G-Spot Toys are hooked to reach into the g-spot (insert with hook facing towards stomach). Or you could try our ever popular couples instructional http://sexgear.co.nz/books-dvds/couples-dvds/expert-guide-to-the-g-spot/ DVD which unlocks the secrets of G-Spot orgasm and Female Ejaculation.

[badkitty78]

Hi
Im having some trouble getting to a orgasm.
in my sexual history i have only cum once with a partner. by myself i have no probs.
i feel really bad as i fake it with my partner and i hate doing that. is there any thing i can do or use to help me increase my chance of reaching a orgasm.
the one time i got to it my ex partner was fingering my clit while in misionery position. i have tried fingering myself as my partner and i are making love but i can never get to climax.
we have tried a heap of different positions but still no luck. my partner cums easy so i cant change to much he gets to excited. lol
if you have any suggestions i would love to try.
Thanks

[jackie'sgift]

Hi Badkitty
hey have you tried the durex organsm gel stuff. you put it on your clit during foreplay or sex and it really stimulates the area - good if you like cumming that way..

[Jan123]

Hey there - I think the product you are refering to is called Durex Play O - i have it,,,, it kinda makes the area really sensitive and cold. I like it. (I always have to have clit stimulation to cum, so it helps heaps!)

[Sarah]

Hi Badkitty
thanks for your question. yes it is very comman for woman to struggle with orgasms - it is often both a physical and emotion process to ensure success. If you need the added sensation of clitoral stimulation during sex to ensure an orgasm, you could try http://sexgear.co.nz/vibrators/strap-ons-and-clit-vibes/we-vibe-ii/The we-vibe.
The we-vibe is a pretty unquie sextoy in the way that you can use it while making love. It allows for both external clitoral simulation and internal g-spot stimulation. It is handsfee so you can use it while having sex.
Might be worth a try?
thanks
Sarah & the SG team http://www.sexgear.co.nz

[Sarah]

PS, Jan123 - the product you are referring to is Durex PlayO: http://sexgear.co.nz/lubricant/durex/durex-play-o/

[Sandy]

I brought that stuff - Durex Play o... it is really funny almost like having thoothpaste on your clit. It cools it down and makes it nice and senstive,.,,, (does that sound weird?)