cross dressing

[digital_sinnah]

Hi everyone.
Yes I love to cross dress. No I am NOT gay...(I get sick of that response and sorry about the 'labelling' - as far as I am concerned i am a sexual being...LOL!) but I am bi-curious.

Well, with that outta the way...what are others thoughts on this?

[AexCN625]

I've got nothing against cross dressing unless I've been fooled by it lol. I've driven on Manchester St so many times and from afar, the sex worker looks hot but when you get closer, it's a guy. Nothing against that sort of thing, as I'm bi-curious myself, but I'm **VERY** picky when it comes to guys.

For those outside Chch, Manchester St is regarded as NZ's sleaziest street and has the majority of sex workers on that road. It was on 60 Minutes a few months back, if memory serves. It is known primarily for the sex workers on show.

But back to topic, I've got nothing against it and I don't see it doing anything for me. I haven't tried and I'm not knocking it, but certainly something I'm giving a miss. I actually have a cousin who's into the full shibang (sp?) - minus the operation. I should see if I can get in contact w/ him again. But yeah, not my cup of tea. However I'm keen to know what got you into this sorta thing digital_sinnah.

Cheers

[digital_sinnah]

great reply Aex. I am in agreement with you on the Manny Street topic...uggh. The sex industry has it's place in society, as it has been there since forever, but that aspect is shows the sadder side of the industry. Oh well...it is not my place to judge - just giving my 2 cents worth.
As for me in panties.. ..I have been fascinated by lingerie since I was younger (early teens I guess). I must admit I was (and still am) not 'into' stealing or buying used etc. Since I was able to earn an income I have bought my own knickers and comfortably worn them when I could - I can imagine many girls in that late teen/early twenty something age group would not be so keen to find their beloved B/F in girls undies, so when I was with partners at that time the old boys boxers had to come out..LOL! But more so it was just insecurities and socialite pressures that made me repress.
Maybe for some folks it seems to be in the 'too weird' basket but that's the way I am and the way I like to be.
Thanks for listening Aex.

[AexCN625]

Yes, tradition social norms tend to get in the way far too often. But like what Westpac said in an ad a few years ago, "what you do in your home is your business..."

So is there a particular favourite you have? Colours?

Also, do you know if there are any support and/or activity groups around?

[digital_sinnah]

LOL...yes - wise words from Westpac!

Hmmm...not 100% on the activity group thing - like you said - doing it in one's home tends to make it kinda private and I can only imagine most CD'ers do so without support from partners. It would be nice to be proven wrong on my assumption though. Yes - there are net-based groups (obviously) that provide forum-type discussion and while those types of networks are there....it's much nicer to have 'real' contact rather than 'typed' contact. I do know there is a CD/trans-gender specific store in Chch.... although I have not been involved in any of the activities there.

As for my own likes and favourites... I'm not such a 'frilly type' lingerie lover - you know the type you'd find in a sex shop...more of a cute kinda style...

[stacey]

Cross dressing is hot!
Well, turns me on anyway. Lol.

[digital_sinnah]

nice stacey

tell us some more details....

[stacey]

What would you like to know?

[stem666]

good for you stacy....what sort of stuff do you like seeing guys dress up in?

[digital_sinnah]

LOL..stem666 beat me to it...

Are you comfortable with a guy doing this stacey...? I'm just curious to have a female's perspective... Have you had any experiences with a partner or friend who is into this...?

It would be great for a female's opinion