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[Shourts]

Thanx for everyone's advice, it been really helpful

[dave28]

Thanks Charlee - that is just the kind of info I was looking for. I think I'll give this a try!

[Charlee]

You're welcome Dave28! Without wanting all the details, let us know how you got on if you want to. It's always good for other people to get a sense of just how individual these sorts of experiences are and how there is no "general rule" for what works or doesn't work.

[Jan123]

Just wanted to let you know that I took the plunge and I have just ordered something through SG that will help me in this area!! took me a while, but hey - why not give something new a go. It was a tantus product - as anyone else used this brand? Let me know cheers Jan

[Charlee]

Hi Jan123,
Great choice! All of my anal toys are tantus - I have the small ripple, plus 2 others that aren't on sexgear (one is a medium-sized toy shaped kinda like a slightly flexed finger, and the other is a small buttplug) and they are my favourite toys. The silicone is nice and flexible, and very easy to keep clean. I would definately reccommend the buttplug in particular as it stays in place really nicely so it's great for use during sex. Good luck with your toy!

[JOHNSON01]

a woman and spontaneously started experimenting with anal play about a year ago now. It was always something I said I would "never" do, despite being fairly liberal in other ways, so I don't know what made me try it in the end. Curtiosity I guess! I started just using a finger and was rather surprised to discover that I quite enjoyed it.

[smokie93]

19, female, been with partner 4 years, active only with him for 4 years too.

he used to just touch my hole and look for reaction in my face (hoping not to get the death stare ) he would ask me to do the same to him too. he would tell me about the male g spot and gradually led me to it. he promised "no surprises up there" and that i could stop if i didn't like it. he had been with a lot of sexual partners before meeting and i always felt a little vanilla, so when he admitted he never come through anal simulation till then i felt great, i finally had one up on his exes and i wasn't so vanilla. that gradually led to me making sure i used to loo before sex to loosen up and clean out, he was gentle, used plenty of lube and gradually built it up. now i freaking love anal, i feel kinky and hot, also im the only one hes been with who enjoys it, he's always pleasantly surprised when i beg for it. not so vanilla sex now