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[Jan123]

HI All
Just wondering what peoples thoughts are around the use of video's in the bedroom. My boy & I have been video's oursleves and then watching it back.... a huge turn on!! I hadn't done this before, and when he suggested it, I was a bit surprised/worried/self-conscious, but once I got into it, I was HOOKED!!! I just love it....

[Tinkerbell]

It's not something I've tried... I think I'd give it ago, so long as I could be sure the footage would be deleted afterwards!! Did you have stage fright the first time? I think I'd look and feel a bit awkward if I knew a camera was there!

[Charlee]

My man and I LOVE making videos! It's partly the thrill of knowing the camera is on that makes the sex just that bit more exciting and naughty, plus the knowledge that we can watch it again and again. We are in a long-distance relationship, so having a few videos of us together (or videos of my toy collection and I for him ) can be just the thing to make those lonely nights not so lonely.

It's definately the kind of thing I would only do in a long-term trusting relationship though, with discussion before hand as to who keeps the copy and what would happen in the event of a breakup etc.

As for your question Tinkerbell: it can be a little awkward at first, especially watching it afterwards ("so THAT'S what I look like in that position!"), but once you learn to relax in front of the camera I find that it actually increases my confidence. Just remember that its not about the video - its about being with your partner and having fun - and you will end up looking natural and confident.

[Tinkerbell]

Thanks for that - really useful info. I'll keep mulling over the possibility of this for a while longer before I decide whether to go for it or not... I still have a fear of looking hideous/silly.

[Jan123]

I think also that if you are just starting out,,, don't have the lights on full!! set the scene a bit and have candles going, and feel free to wear some nice lingerie, that way you don't feel really exposed at the beginning! Nothing worse that full lights and a whole load of white pastey skin!!! I also like listening to the sounds we make when watching the video back.... hmmmmm

[sunikele]

Hello, your advice was excellent and it really works for beginner also.
Thank you!
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