Butt plugs seem to big

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Butt plugs seem to big

Postby gibbs function » Sun Mar 15, 2009 8:02 pm

I was looking for a butt plug
I am new to using these and have never had anal sex. Basically nothing larger than a finger has been in there, and that feels tight.
Looking round (everywhere) all butt plugs seem to be huge, both in width and length. The very smallest length thats vaguely common is about 5 inches...
I was wondering if is is possible to find small butt plugs, and does anyone else feel the available ones don't cater to what they would like in terms of size?
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Re: Butt plugs seem to big

Postby Sarah » Mon Mar 16, 2009 8:49 am

Hi there, thanks for the interesting post! I have had this kind of inquiry before. Bootie from Fun Factory is a good beginner butt toy. The thing to remember with the anal cavity is that there is a muscle component to it, so it contracts and relaxes. That means, it will always feel tighter than other cavities! The best thing to do is to use lots and lots of lube - I am talking almost an entire tube! And take things slowly, a couple of cms at a time. Also, you might want to start with butt beads rather than butt plugs. Because they have a gradiated size as you move up the string, you can slowly get used to the feelings!
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