How to organise a 3some HELP.

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How to organise a 3some HELP.

Postby gandlnz » Mon Sep 07, 2009 12:17 am

My wife and I have discussed, during love making mainly, the possibility of engaging a 3rd person into our Sex sessions. I want to bring this up in a more formal way and start the process of looking for the ultimate playmate for us, could be either male or female. Can anyone help with how they got started in making this final move to having their first threesome. Any help greatly appreciated.
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Re: How to organise a 3some HELP.

Postby overandoveragain » Tue Sep 08, 2009 3:22 pm

I'm going to listen in too! :D
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Re: How to organise a 3some HELP.

Postby AexCN625 » Tue Sep 08, 2009 11:54 pm

I'd prolly bring it up w/ her after making love to her - bringing up the topic that is. She'll prolly be still in the mood.

A checklist of what the ideal person(s) would be would have to be made at some point and rules will have to be made up. Usually the variables set here are an indication of how eager either of you are on the idea. Wow I just made it sound like a mathematical equation.

Anyway, if the rules seem restrictive, then there prolly is some hesitation somewhere and that will need to be addressed first. Seeing that you're the more eager for it, most of the restrictions are prolly gonna be set by your partner.

Talk it over w/ her, and if possible, have a chat about it like after dinner or something. That should change the routine a bit lol.
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Re: How to organise a 3some HELP.

Postby hotkiwi » Wed Sep 09, 2009 11:38 pm

My wife started about it herself that she would want to do it with another woman and me. I had no objections. Be careful how you do this, since if you pick a person you may want to ask, you may offend. In the end we decided to do it with an escort we plucked from the nzgirls.co.nz website and we were both happy with the looks of her. We booked her for 2 hours, had a great time and afterwards no problems and dificulties to see that person again etc etc. Believe me, this is the safest way. As a student I had some trio's but relations can get very sour and messy afterwards.
i am sure we will do this again.

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Re: How to organise a 3some HELP.

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