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[Jan123]

Hi all, hey would be keen for a discussion on this topic.... I have often fantasied about using a strap on with my partner ( I quite like the idea of being the dominant one...), and i don't know whether I should do anything about it! I know that he likes pressure and play in this area, and we often use butt plugs and that type of thing when having sex, however this would be taking it to the next level. Not sure what I should buy, or quite how to approach it. I would love some feedback if poss.......

[AexCN625]

Hi Jan123

This is an interesting one.

Maybe you should just ask him. Just like, in a commercial break of his favourite TV show or something lol.

Or maybe you could ask him straight after you two make love. That's if he's still conscious, of course lol. Just casually ask him; and maybe chuck in your fantasy about it - with the disclaimer that it's obligation-free. Even chuck in the funny line "Trial for 30 days and if you're not happy...blah blah blah" etc etc.

Or maybe you don't have to ask him specifically about it, just ask him how he generally feels about being more adventurous with your sex lives, that would be a good way to gauge how he feels.

[digital_sinnah]

very nice Jan
I think Aex has the right approach - just let him know how you feel. It seems that anal play is already on the menu for your bedroom fun so adding to it should not (one would presume) be any problem!

Good luck with your 'strap-on' quest! All I know is that he is one lucky guy!

[AexCN625]

Once you've asked how he generally feels about being more adventurous, get to know how he would like to take it further. If he's up to taking it further, the strapon may not be on the list, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's out of scope. Ask him how he would feel if you gave him more attention to that area. Should he ask what you mean by that, tell him that you'd like to see something **SLIGHTLY** larger or longer (whichever) than the butt plug. Or even using a bigger butt plug.

if you're willing to share, I'd like to know how response - only if you're willing to share

Cheers

[jackie'sgift]

Hi Jan, if you are looking for a good strap on, I would suggest using Doc Johnson products. His products are all interchangeable, and you can use different dongs on different strapons, so that you don't have to buy new ones everytime you want something different. Just make sure you buy the Vac-u=-lock system ones, and then they all go together.

I have the radiant gems harness, and the fusion dong, and I can interchange them. The fusion dong one is heaps bigger than the radiant gems penis. this brand is really good quality - so if that is want you and your boy want, it would be a great place to start. We enjoy it

[Jan123]

Hi me again,,,, still keen to get us something from this category... have just seen that SG has new products by tantus, and one is called the bend over beginner kit.... it looks really nice from the video link... who has tried it?

[sunikele]

I am also seeking for this, please suggest if you get any suggestion related.
Any advice invited. Thanks in advance.
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